Boston Discernment Counseling

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Discernment counseling is a short‑term, highly structured approach created by Bill Doherty, Ph.D., specifically for couples who are uncertain about the future of their relationship and are considering separation or divorce. It differs from traditional couples therapy by focusing not on repairing the relationship immediately, but on helping each partner gain clarity about whether they want to stay together, separate, or commit to a period of focused couples therapy. This model involves guided conversations, individual reflection, and exploration of each partner’s contributions to the relationship dynamics, all within a safe and non‑judgmental space. Doherty’s philosophy centers on honoring ambivalence, maintaining therapist neutrality, and empowering partners to make informed, intentional decisions rather than feeling rushed toward reconciliation or separation

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